Aaron Retamero

I write to understand myself better and, perhaps, help someone else.

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Discernment Returning to Its PlaceOn image, social performance, and the need for relationships where you can rest.5 views

2026

People Who Want to Be Perceived, Not SeenAbout people who don't show themselves: they're designed to provoke a specific reading.4 viewsAttraction to ChaosOn confusing intensity with depth, danger with courage, and disorder with something interesting.2 viewsThe Problem of Seeing What You Don't Want to SeeAbout noticing patterns almost without meaning to, using that to protect yourself, and getting tired because you can't switch it off.1 viewBuilding Without WitnessesOn the weight of building something big when almost no one can see it yet.2 views